Supposedly, feminists

Hate men/Want to be men
Are soulless/Are bleeding hearts
Aren’t feminine enough to be taken seriously/Are too feminine to be taken seriously

But, actually, women are

Vulnerable (so you should stay inside!)
Varied (so we can’t talk about all your issues!)
Voracious (you want too much too fast!)

You can’t win.

When everything’s split, when you have to pick one or the other to stay true or stay afloat, choose everything. Take up your soul and your bleeding heart. Go with femininity and masculinity in ways that sustain you. Be vulnerable, and varied, and voracious. Pursue the kinds of love you want. This is the fundamental thing.

Be wonderful. I wish you well.